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05 January 2009 @ 09:29 pm
Friends Cuts  
Yes, I know everyone is doing it, but it really is that time again. I'll be cutting in the next day or so.

If you get cut, it's because:

1. You have had an inactive journal for months.
2. We have vastly different interests and never clicked beyond a couple of posts.
3. We used to talk, but we've drifted and rarely speak anymore.

Some of you are very lovely people and I would rather not make the cut, but we just don't talk. Since I do take my friendships (even online) very seriously, I want to devote my time to people who want to have conversation.

As always, if you feel I've cut you in error just let me know. This really isn't about stress or drama, I swear. It could easily be a misunderstanding :)
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{red wine and ambien, you're talking shit again}: SPN//Sam & Dean//on three. one - *pop*powerof3 on January 6th, 2009 02:57 am (UTC)
zomg don't cut meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee *clings to your leg* ilu, bb! :D
Working for the Mandroid: Huntmoonshayde on January 6th, 2009 03:49 am (UTC)
You love me but you use an icon where Dean is getting his shoulder popped? What kind of secret message is that? ;)
(no subject) - powerof3 on January 6th, 2009 03:51 am (UTC) (Expand)
(no subject) - lovellama on January 6th, 2009 04:26 am (UTC) (Expand)
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Working for the Mandroid: brothers (winchester)moonshayde on January 6th, 2009 03:48 am (UTC)
It's totally understandable. It's okay. I hope I didn't cause too much drama :( This is just aimed at people I don't really talk to anymore or if we've drifted apart. I'm still getting to know you.

And yay SPN, right?
Rae: DeanNoDammitautumnrae89 on January 6th, 2009 03:37 am (UTC)
*Feels abandoned*

Please! Noooo! I do read all your posts even if I don't have time to comment on them. Hell, I don't even have time to comment on my own posts.
Working for the Mandroid: Shockmoonshayde on January 6th, 2009 03:47 am (UTC)
It's okay. I hate these posts because I don't like to cause anyone any undue drama. I'm not cutting anyone fairly new to my flist. I understand it takes time to get to know people and get comfortable. Plus, the holidays and such. Don't worry. it's all good.
Elaeazephelaeazeph on January 6th, 2009 03:37 am (UTC)
I won't be offended in the slightest if I'm cut. We met on a friending meme, but recently I've been absent or otherwise too busy for Livejournal to nurture any friendships.

ETA: By which I don't mean to imply that I find your posts disinteresting or that I am considering unfriending you of my own initiative. Just. I'll undestand if I'm in the cut.

Ack. *flails arms awkwardly*

Edited at 2009-01-06 03:39 am (UTC)
Working for the Mandroid: Across Realmsmoonshayde on January 6th, 2009 03:45 am (UTC)
Oh geez no. No flailing! I'm not cutting anyone recent. it takes time to get to know people. This is more geared to people who don't post and have been around for a while or who I just don't talk to much anymore. It allows me to focus more oon people that I might be missing.

So I'm not cutting you.
aaronlisa: SPN: Dean (yellow fever)aaronlisa on January 6th, 2009 03:47 am (UTC)
I hope that you don't cut me. The last month has just been insane for with working the graveyard shifts and then Christmas.
{red wine and ambien, you're talking shit again}: SPN//Dean//Dean approves of the planpowerof3 on January 6th, 2009 03:52 am (UTC)
Hey, I know you! *glomps*

Ahem. Back to your originally scheduled post. :D
(no subject) - moonshayde on January 6th, 2009 03:52 am (UTC) (Expand)
(no subject) - aaronlisa on January 6th, 2009 03:57 am (UTC) (Expand)
Nervous, Messed-Up Marionette: sam wins at forearmssuperbadgirl on January 6th, 2009 03:48 am (UTC)
I'm just here to admire your mood. meg_tdj really did a fab job, you lucky ducky.
Working for the Mandroid: Sam Cutmoonshayde on January 6th, 2009 03:50 am (UTC)
She did awesome, yes? *stares*

I have to use them all now!
Valerie: Sam&Dean2jeannev on January 6th, 2009 04:07 am (UTC)
I have to do this too, but I keep putting it off and putting it off. Maybe I'll get some inspiration from you. :)
Working for the Mandroid: Clark Heat Visionmoonshayde on January 6th, 2009 04:09 am (UTC)
I hate doing it. I really do. But there are some people I never talk to and then I end up skimming tons of posts and I miss posts that could be interesting or important.

Plus, I'm sure there have to be people that have drifted that would like to cut me loose.

It's just a hard thing to do.

(SV is almost back yay!)
(no subject) - gategrrl on January 6th, 2009 05:30 am (UTC) (Expand)
(no subject) - moonshayde on January 6th, 2009 08:38 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Josephine: Beachlovellama on January 6th, 2009 04:31 am (UTC)
I'm not new, and I realize I don't comment all that much on your blog, but I do read it and am interested in what you are doing (in a non psycho stalker way), and I'd like to stay. :)
Working for the Mandroid: Couragemoonshayde on January 6th, 2009 08:39 pm (UTC)
No problem. I do the same :)
cate12345: dean shirtcate12345 on January 6th, 2009 05:38 am (UTC)
Sometimes you just got to do what you have to do. I like your pretty boys fighting sidebar, very Cute!
Working for the Mandroid: crossroadsmoonshayde on January 6th, 2009 08:41 pm (UTC)
Pretty boys fighting makes everything better!

I'm not cutting anyone new, though. I'mstill trying to get to know you all :)
A.vella_amor_dm on January 6th, 2009 06:04 am (UTC)
what's the verdict for me? o.O
Working for the Mandroid: Divinemoonshayde on January 6th, 2009 08:42 pm (UTC)
DENIED!

Nah, I don't know you all that well yet so I'm not cutting anyone new. It's just some pruning I need to do.
(no subject) - vella_amor_dm on January 7th, 2009 12:36 am (UTC) (Expand)
ridin' the star milestargazercmc on January 6th, 2009 06:10 am (UTC)
*stalks you* ;P
Working for the Mandroid: No Harshingmoonshayde on January 6th, 2009 08:43 pm (UTC)
You're everywhere! Gah!
     Mandya_phoenixdragon on January 6th, 2009 06:53 am (UTC)
Sorry we don't converse as much honey - and that most of my ineraction is *hugs* - I wish I had a better excuse than RL and children, but...

*Shrugs helplessly*

*hugs*
Working for the Mandroid: Castielmoonshayde on January 6th, 2009 08:43 pm (UTC)
It's okay. Don't worry. I haven't been commenting enough on yours either. I like your energy :)
svgurl: clark s8svgurl on January 6th, 2009 09:35 am (UTC)
I hope I can stay! I do enjoy reading your posts! :D
Working for the Mandroid: Cufflinksmoonshayde on January 6th, 2009 08:42 pm (UTC)
I enjoy your posts too :)
kellifer_fic: Sam sunlightkellifer_fic on January 6th, 2009 11:47 pm (UTC)
I seem to have lost a few people lately and I know it's because I just haven't been around a great deal for my online pals. I've become a skimmer and I haaaate it.

So, totally understand and don't feel bad. I can't bring myself to cut people even though I probably should and have even made myself a reading list filter that I can't keep up with. *kermit hands of frustration*

The only thing I miss about my old job was being able to tool around on LJ for hours during the day. :)
Working for the Mandroid: Bobby is Sanemoonshayde on January 7th, 2009 02:52 am (UTC)
Aw, yeah. I've been feeling the same way too. See, since I don't have much time, I'm just being a horrible flist person. I really want to get to know people better. I tend to read fics of people I start to have a person connection with, so I feel kind of bad that you post fic after fic and I just haven't had time to read it. So I thought if I trimmed you down, you wouldn't wonder: why does that person never comment but is on my flist?
(no subject) - kellifer_fic on January 7th, 2009 09:20 am (UTC) (Expand)
Anna: Sam/Jacklastingdreams8 on January 7th, 2009 05:15 am (UTC)
*waves* It was nice getting to know you, even if our interests are kinda different now:)
See you around thedailywriter :D
Working for the Mandroidmoonshayde on January 7th, 2009 12:52 pm (UTC)
I don't think I've cut you and I like you, but I wish we had something in common to talk about! We do have the writing comm though :)
(no subject) - lastingdreams8 on January 7th, 2009 07:58 pm (UTC) (Expand)