April 7th, 2012

Silent Defender (Dean)

Friends Cut

I'm doing a minor friends cut. I noticed a lot of people don't use LJ anymore. If you haven't updated in quite a while, I'm probably going to cut you. I really want to use LJ again and my flist has gotten massively unwieldy.

People who haven't posted in like 9 months aren't likely to see this anyway, LOL. But I wanted to mention it before I made the cut. (Not that it will make my flist any more manageable, but it will make me feel better.)

Then I'll revisit what comes next later. I'd really like to keep people with simialr interests or who I can have a conversation with :)

But that's for another day.

Of course, if you friended me and I never friended back and you'd think we'd make a good fit, please let me know and I'll add you on.
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Sam Cut

Reached the Limit

Yes, I officially reached my limit. Maybe I shouldn't post this or make any decisions when I'm having a bad day, but it doesn't seem to be stopping me!

I always bend my schedule around for everyone else. I'm a people pleaser and I like to be accommodating. Unfortunately, this often leads to people just assuming I am there at their every whim and it results in me becoming frustrated and resentful.

No more. I am going to plan my day and if it clashes with someone else's plans, then they are going to have to shuffle their schedule. Maybe that is selfish of me, but at this point I need to take some of my time back. I'm sleeping awful, eating awful, and miserable all the time. Besides, I'm called selfish no matter what I do, so who cares right?

If people really do care, they'll be considerate enough to work with me instead of assuming I'm always available. If not...I guess I'll find out.
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