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27 January 2011 @ 01:26 pm
Dusting off the Cobwebs in My Mind  
Okie dokie.

All shoveled out with some time left to play. Bro and I tag teamed the foot of snow we got over night, did a quick fix for our fallen fence, and are now resting.

Which gives me some time to play on LJ :)

Looking ahead, there are a few things I want to be more regular with.

Posting: I want to start posting more again. I feel like a stranger here on my own LJ, and I know it has a lot to do with going back to feeling uncomfortable in my own space. I am by no means a mean-spirited fan (aside from some shows I want to DIE DIE DIE), but I try hard to keep this journal a positive place to come back to. Instead, I've been keeping my mouth shut what I've felt about certain episodes because I don't want to be overwhelmed with negativity. I shouldn't feel the need to hide from my own freakin' journal. I've done this before in the past, but never this bad. So I am percolating on how I will be adding it back into one of the fun parts of my day.

Commenting: I really do want to comment on people's LJ's more. Most of the time I just don't know what to say. Or I have to wade through so much junk before I get to something I can actually comment on, which by then I'm too tired anyway. So I am focusing on being better with that. Which leads to...

Friending/Unfriending: I think a good chunk of us have drifted apart and I won't be offended if you're one of those people who would like to go since we just failed to connect. You're welcome to stay, of course, and believe it or not I do LOVE to talk. So if you are interested in getting to know each other better than just some random fandom stuff, let me know. I love a good healthy conversation. I'm not cutting anyone right now, and I still love the following and would love to continue to talk to you if we have some of these things in common:

Dark Angel
Reading (I especially like contemporary and urban fantasy)

I still see myself as primarily a gen person, though there are many het couples I like. I still am all about Sam and Dean on SPN. I still love Dean/Jo even now. I still watch the show for the brother's relationship. And I still love my other shows listed. (Yay, Clark/Lois!)

There's always more and I'm happy to talk to people who are very different than me as well. It's just easier if we have a few things in common. So like I said, if you think it's time to move on and we have nothing in common, feel free to unfriend. But if you would like to know each other better, just drop me a comment or a message :)

BTW, Supernatural STILL ROCKS :)

Art and Fic: You know, I've been making icons here and there, and writing as well, and just not POSTING it. So I need to stop being lazy and just post it already.

So there you go. Hope everyone is well! Please let me know if I've missed anything important as I have been LJ-lazy!
Current Mood: soresore
Seisachtheiaclaudiapriscus on January 27th, 2011 08:38 pm (UTC)
okay, I'm just so curious: What's your list of shows that you want to die? (For myself, I can really only think of one recently, and it perished.)
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jomadgejomadge on January 27th, 2011 08:48 pm (UTC)
I love reading your Supernatural musings, though I don't watch it myself. :-)
Working for the Mandroid: Dusty Brothersmoonshayde on January 28th, 2011 11:55 pm (UTC)
Oh thanks!
anna_sg1anna_sg1 on January 27th, 2011 09:55 pm (UTC)
BTW, Supernatural STILL ROCKS :)

Hell yeah, it is! :D
Working for the Mandroid: Dynamic Duomoonshayde on January 28th, 2011 11:55 pm (UTC)
cate12345: dean winchester approvedcate12345 on January 27th, 2011 10:39 pm (UTC)
Well, we still have Supernatural in common! I'm striving to be a better commenter on journals, cause I've been feeling like I was drifting from my friends, so I'm really trying here! And you're right, Supernatural does still rock!
Working for the Mandroid: Dean Flashlightmoonshayde on January 28th, 2011 11:55 pm (UTC)
That's the same thing I'm going through. I feel as though I am drifting and I want to make it count, especially with the people who are interested in continuing.
majorsamfanmajorsamfan on January 28th, 2011 01:09 am (UTC)
I know what you mean. I'm trying to be more intentional about commenting and posting - and not just memes or words of the day or fic - but it's HARD to keep up with everything.

Working for the Mandroid: AoT Teal'cmoonshayde on January 28th, 2011 11:52 pm (UTC)
It is very hard. It never seemed hard before?

What happened!
aelfgyfu_meadaelfgyfu_mead on January 28th, 2011 02:06 am (UTC)
It's always good to hear from you. It would be nice to hear from you more!
Working for the Mandroid: crossroadsmoonshayde on January 28th, 2011 11:51 pm (UTC)
I've been so quiet! Trying to fix that!
crayonbreakygalcrayonbreakygal on January 28th, 2011 02:54 am (UTC)
I've been totally feeling the same way about LJ lately. Hard to post when there's negativity, so not as much posting for me either. I'm always afraid of commenting and saying the wrong thing. It just seems like that happens way too often with people, so I'm just a little quieter than usual.

I'm still here too. Love hearing about SPN. I've been reading cross-over fics with SPN and Angel. Yay for that.
Working for the Mandroid: Castiel Lightmoonshayde on January 28th, 2011 11:53 pm (UTC)
The negativity really brings me down. I know I shouldn't let it get to me, but it's HARD.

Everyone takes everything the wrong way, you know? Including me.

But I'm glad you're still around :)
Meghan: winchester brospeach_megumi on January 28th, 2011 03:30 am (UTC)
*sneaks in and waves*

Howdy. Can we still be friends?
Working for the Mandroid: Winchestersmoonshayde on January 28th, 2011 11:51 pm (UTC)
Hey! You know it :)
Spiletta42spiletta42 on January 28th, 2011 05:39 pm (UTC)
I'm quiet for months at a time, and wildly negative when my job is making me miserable (which seems to be all of the time since 2009), but we still have interests in common and I still read your posts when I'm around. Sorry I'm such a sucky friend.
Working for the Mandroid: badassmoonshayde on January 28th, 2011 11:50 pm (UTC)
No problem. I've been very quiet lately myself.
A.vella_amor_dm on January 29th, 2011 02:15 am (UTC)
hey you :)

we've been lj friends for a while but i don't think we really know each other lol. i would love to talk to you more and i think i shall keep you around on my flist :)

fandom-wise, i still love dark angel but i'm starting to move way from SPN. i'll always love Dean but idk, season 6 has really disappointed me.
JoeyLeighjoeyleigh on January 29th, 2011 04:26 am (UTC)
*waves Hi*

SG-1 is always my happy place. =) Wouldn't mind keeping in touch.